FAQ

What is boudoir?

If you've been following Bare By Brina for any amount of time, you'll notice we talk a lot about Boudoir and we provide you with lots of information on how to prep for a shoot, but we don't often explain what exactly Boudoir is and what it means. Boudoir is the French word for a woman's bedroom, so it makes sense that a boudoir photo shoot is typically thought of as a sexy photo shoot. Clients typically wear sexy outfits - lingerie, stockings, undergarments, dresses, etc. It doesn’t always have to be like that though! Personally, when I think of a boudoir shoot, I think of it as more of a confidence booster. While some women believe wearing sexy clothing helps their build confidence, that’s not always the case. Many women choose to wear items of clothing that they wear everyday (i.e.- a tank or tee, a fitted button down shirt, a robe, a jersey, etc.) that will remind them of that photo shoot every time they wear it. We welcome your creative input and remember, you are part of your styling team too! While some women choose to do a shoot for a significant other (birthday gift, wedding present, anniversary, etc.), it typically ends up being a gift for themselves more so in the long run. Sessions do SO MUCH to lift you up and give you back a sense of self, and a refreshed feeling of confidence. Your partner will look lovingly at the images too, but the true feeling of transformation will only be felt by you, our client and the subject of the images. Most of my clients have shared that booking a shoot initially brought on feelings of anxiety, but ended up being a huge confidence builder for them. We are here for you every step of the way and can often talk you through the different feelings and emotions you may feel before your session. Always reach out!

What is required of me?

Good question! You just need to show up babe. We still coach and do everything, and hair and makeup is provided! So no stress there.

What if I am unhappy with my body?

You do not need to fit a certain mold to do a boudoir session. Repeat after me:

"I am beautiful right now, just the way that I am. I do not need to change anything about myself to be

beautiful.” There is no one single definition of beautiful, we are all unique and that is what is special. Just because someone else looks different than you does not take away from your own individual beauty. We photograph women of all shapes, sizes, colors, ages, etc. and each and every one of them is gorgeous in many aspect both inside and out. We want to photograph you how you are, right now.

There are a million reasons to book a boudoir session, but sometimes you don't need a reason at all. A few reasons you may consider booking a boudoir session that have nothing to do with your weight:

A gift to yourself just because

Before having children

After childbirth

A monumental birthday (30, 40, 50, 60, 70, and even 80!!)

Just because you simply need a boost

Maternity boudoir

For your wedding or anniversary

To show off a new tattoo

As a gift to someone else (birthday, holiday)

So that you can finally see why everyone else keeps telling you that you are beautiful

For your divorce

Something amazing to look back on when you're older

SO NO! You need to come in as you are and celebrate yourself right now 

Do I have to get NAKED for my session?

Absolutely Not, this is where the client closet comes in! You do not have to get completely nude for your session if that makes you uncomfortable. Your photographer should NEVER pressure you to go outside of your comfort zone, and we will always ask you how far you'd like to go in regards to nudity during your shoot. Many people think that a boudoir shoot means you have to go naked - nope! Not true. In fact, we have lots of very conservative clients that don't want to show much skin at all. Their images come out as beautiful and sensual as the client who wants to bare it all. Nudity does not equal "sexy" or "sexuality," those things are all implied with posing and facial expressions. The only time we suggest being completely nude is when we do the “in the sheets” part of your shoot! Even then, you will be covered by the sheet and none of our images will ever display your "party part." Bare boobs and bare bum are ok but you will never see anything beyond that. You could wear a thong if that makes you feel more comfortable, but either way, we can show as much or as little as you want by covering up with the sheet or by using your hands.

The only other time you might choose to go nude is if you choose to use the Shower Set or the Tub Set as your bonus! In that case, most women who use the Shower Set and the Tub Set are completely nude - but again this is a comfort level thing and you can totally do these sets with lingerie, a bathing suit, or a white tank top.

Of course, we do have lots of clients who know they want to go nude and we welcome that as well. Please just keep in mind all of our images are done in a classy and tasteful manner, we love artsy classic nudes.

I am very proud to say that we do have clients who are nervous to go nude, but by the time the end of the shoot comes they realize it's not that scary and take the plunge. Our staff is amazing at making our clients feel safe and comfortable! 

I don't want my photos posted anywhere, is that possible?

Absolutely, your images, your choice!

Should I go tanning?

Hell to the no :)

No spray tans 4-6 weeks prior to your session or tanning beds 2-3 weeks before your session! It will give your skin a funny tint we can't easily correct. Plus it can leave a stain on our furniture which we definitely don't want!

When will I see my images?

You will see your images immediately after your session! We will break for 30-60 minutes and then you will have two hours to review and select the images you wish to purchase!